You can never save others

 　　At the age of 30, she suddenly announced that she intends to get back with her ex-boyfriend who broke up four years ago. I was surprised.

　　They are all drifting north, supporting each other and coming together naturally. Once, on her way back from applying for a job, she lost the document bag containing all the documents. She was so anxious that she could only cry. It was he who coaxed her all the way and accompanied her to look for it, and finally found the lost document bag at the entrance of the subway station. She will always remember the warmth of each other at that moment.

　　His family was poor, she really didn't mind, but he was worried, and finally gritted his teeth and stomped his feet and went to sea to start a business. The children's love was too long to take into account, he told her: don't wait for me.

　　4 years have passed, the man has been beautiful, and he has lost a clean. When I returned to Beijing, I wanted to start all over again. I didn’t even have the money to rent a house, so I called her and asked if I could borrow it for a few nights.

　　After a long conversation all night, the man was sometimes in high spirits, and sometimes his face was full of sadness. Finally, he couldn't control the tears in his eyes, and wept in her palm. Huge pity welled up in her heart, she hugged him tightly, unable to let go.

　　"It's hard to avoid trouble," she said. "I can't leave him alone."

　　She said it impassively, and I just asked her how much cash she had on her card—not much now, and just paid off a critical debt for him.

　　I laughed and laughed: "You are a salaryman, you squeeze the subway every day, tighten your belt to pay others, what's the matter? When you are in danger, either you have obligations or abilities, you have no name or ability, this is called '' Right or wrong is only because of the strong."

　　That's right, he was in trouble, like he fell into a manhole on the road, and the sky and the earth should not respond in an instant. He was weak like a chick like a baby, and immediately aroused the pity in the woman's heart. It is a mysterious power that is overwhelming like a tide, and this power can devour the land and create new islands.

　　The arm is not strong enough to save him from the fire and water, so he plans to jump down the well himself, willing to be a human ladder, and let the man step on his back: your bank credit card, I will pay it back; your parents and family, I will take care of you; Half a lifetime of human reputation has been bankrupt, I will be your angel investor... Then what? Once he escapes danger, he will inevitably pat his butt and leave. Who are you waiting for to be your support? If the manhole cover is closed, no one will hear your cry.

　　When he is proud of his horse's hoof, he will not share it with you, but let you share the embarrassment of others.

　　She hurriedly interjected: "I think, I will come to me at the most difficult time, because I am a family member." Girl, don't be sentimental - "I am important to him" is often wishful thinking, and the harsher truth is: maybe, He is more important to you.

　　Many women have a Jane Eyre in their hearts, who have been rejected, disliked, and hurt, and while accepting their fate, they think sadly: "If God gave me wealth and beauty, I would make it difficult for you to leave me, just as it is difficult for me now. It's the same as leaving you." In the world of novels, Jane Eyre inherited a legacy from heaven and was finally able to save her blind and bankrupt lover with the respect of the king. In reality, this can only be a dream.

　　Your ex-boyfriend fulfilled your Jane Eyre dream, rescued you from the gray days of ordinary people, and you have become the heroine of a romance novel. Your righteousness is awe-inspiring, and you have a halo around you that others can't see, but this halo can only move you.

　　You can never save others, nor will you ever.